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Relationship Insights Quiz

Discover the dynamics of your relationship with our insightful quiz designed specifically for couples. This quiz will help you explore various aspects of your partnership, including communication, intimacy, trust, and support.

Gauge the level of intimacy in your relationship.
Understand how you navigate conflicts and stress together.
Identify areas for potential growth and improvement.

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a quiz for couples

Annie Ilikea E. Snow

Assignment #2: Relationship Instrument

PSY 459 - Social Psychology: Advanced Topics
Marriage & Relationship Development

a quiz for couples

Annie Ilikea E. Snow

Assignment #2: Relationship Instrument

PSY 459 - Social Psychology: Advanced Topics
Marriage & Relationship Development

What description best describes your relationship with your partner?

I care about them deeply, but am sometimes unsure of where we stand or if they accept me. We argue a lot, and at times I feel lonely within the relationship and unsure of where their head is at.

We are best friends and lovers. I feel incredibly close to my partner and comfortable and supported in sharing all aspects of our lives.

I really appreciate having someone I can enjoy life with. We have a good connection and I can usually be myself around them.

Are you satisfied with the nature and frequency of your sexual dynamic?

For the most part, but there's room for improvement and I'm not sure how to approach that with my partner.

Our sex life is greatly lacking OR sometimes it feels like our sex life is the only positive in our relationship.

Yes, very. There are natural ebbs and flows, but overall we are in simpatico sexually and can easily communicate our preferences and needs.

Has there been any infidelity within the course of the relationship?

Never, our relationship was built upon trust and commitment. I can’t imagine either one of us crossing that line.

It happened, and it was very difficult, but we were able to work through it together.

Yes, maybe even more than once. It’s been a constant source of conflict and resentment since.

If your partner doesn’t respond to a phone call or text for longer than usual how are you left feeling?

Insecure/Anxious, I would become increasingly upset that they aren't communicating and would likely assume the worst.

Curious, but Secure. It would be unusual for them not to check in and I would wonder why but it wouldn't upset me as I trust them completely.

Ambivalent, I don’t really notice OR I’m the one more likely not to call/text.

Do you feel as if there is an equal give and take between you and your partner?

Sometimes it feels like myself or my partner is giving more to the relationship and it leaves one of us feeling put out.

Yes I do, there are times one of us needs to step up for the other, but it is always equalized.

No, I often feel I’m putting my partner’s needs first and they don’t do the same in return, I am left feeling undervalued OR I often feel like my partner is catering to me and is passively resentful.

Is manipulation a factor in your relationship?

No, my partner and I are respectful of our individuality, straightforward in communication, and open to differences.

I often question my perspective and feel confused about what I am doing to upset my partner OR I often find myself finessing situations to my advantage, regardless of what technique this requires.

Sometimes I notice my partner or myself using tactics to control situations to our liking/advantage.

How do your friends and family feel about your partner?

My friends and/or family aren’t happy with my choice in partner, which makes socializing forced/difficult and prompts me to sometimes question our relationship.

They absolutely love my partner, he/she fit in seamlessly with those closest to me.

They may have some differences, but are able to coexist. For the most part they are supportive of our relationship.

How do you and your partner navigate stress and crises?

Life can be difficult, but my partner always makes me feel supported. We are stronger together and working as a united front we use positivity and respectful communication and can navigate adversity and adapt to changes as needed.

I feel utterly overwhelmed and unsupported by my partner in times of adversity, our relationship suffers and I sometimes wonder if we can get through our problems.

We sometimes lose perspective and take out our frustrations on one another, but we find a way to make it through troubling times together.

Do you notice you or your partner exhibiting signs of contempt, criticism, defensiveness, stonewalling, and/or belligerence in the relationship on a regular basis?

One or both of us can at times be guilty of these behaviors and hurt one another, we recognize this as a problem and work towards shifting these patterns.

Practically never, we have conflict at times and don’t always behave as we would like to, but these terms don’t resonate with our dynamic.

These terms really hit home and are common behaviors we exhibit towards one another, I don't know why we are so unkind to each other.

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