Are you gay?

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Discover Your True Self

Are you curious about your sexual orientation? This quiz invites you to explore your feelings and experiences in a fun and insightful way. Answer a series of thoughtful questions to gain a better understanding of your attractions and preferences.

12 engaging questions to guide your self-discovery
Multiple-choice answers for easy participation
Find out if you might identify as gay or question your feelings

14 Questions4 MinutesCreated by CuriousHeart42

Have you ever had feelings for a same-gender close friend?

I think so. That’s why I’m taking this quiz.

Wait, what’s the difference between friendship and a crush?

Don’t think so, but we’re so close people joke that we’re dating.

Nope. We’re just friends.

Have you ever kissed someone or wanted to kiss someone of the same gender?

Definitely, and it was great.

I haven’t done it, but I want to try it.

Yeah, and I’m not sure how I felt about it.

Nope. Not interested.

How do you feel about queer characters in TV shows and movies?

Oh, I’ve totally watched shows just for the queer ships and storylines.

I kind of feel like I can identify with queer characters.

I notice queer characters, but I don’t feel strongly about them.

I like the positive representation, but they don’t stand out to me.

When someone asks you who you’re crushing on:

A name comes to mind immediately, and it’s someone of the same gender.

I make up a name or pick someone random.

I literally don’t get the big deal about crushes.

I talk about someone of the opposite sex who I’m genuinely crushing on.

Has anyone ever asked you if you were gay?

People pretty much assume that about me all the time.

I’ve been asked that once or twice.

No one has asked directly if I’m gay, but I wouldn’t be surprised if they did ask.

Never. People assume I’m straight.

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When you imagine being in a relationship, what do you picture?

I can only see myself with someone of the same sex.

I’m not sure. Any gender seems okay.

I’ll probably be with someone of the opposite sex.

I can only see myself with someone of the opposite sex.

How would you feel about identifying as gay?

Yeah, that feels right.

It honestly makes me a little nervous, but also kinda fits.

I’m not sure how I feel.

No, I really don’t think that’s me.

Have you ever felt attracted to someone of the same gender?

Yes.

Yeah, but everyone has, right?

People of the same gender are just objectively more attractive.

Nope.

How do you feel about dating someone of the opposite gender?

I’m not interested. That would feel like a chore.

I wouldn’t mind, and I’ve either wanted to do it or have done it.

Maybe, but I’m not really interested in anyone.

I’d definitely date (or have dated) someone of the opposite gender.

Do you ever fantasize about being with someone of the same gender?

Yeah. Pretty often.

Sometimes.

Yes, but I’m not sure I’d actually end up with someone of the same gender.

No.

When you imagine kissing or being intimate with a future partner, how do you feel?

As long as I’m with someone I really like, that sounds great.

Good, I guess?

I can’t imagine that, and I don’t think I’ll ever want that, regardless of gender.

I’m too young for that.

Are you gay?

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