LOVE LANGUAGES

When in a relationship, I find it most meaningful when my partner:

Kisses me unexpectedly

Offers to take me out for dinner, just because

Clears their weekend schedule so we can make plans

Tells me what they like about me

Surprises me with something I've had my eye on

Which best describes your relationship deal-breaker:

Being spoken down to

Lack of consideration

Long distance

Lack of intimacy

As a child, my parents showed me they cared about me by:

Buying me toys whenever I wanted

Telling me how special I was and how proud they were of me

Cooking my favourite meal for me every week

Kissing me on the forehead and cuddling me often

Taking an interest in my hobbies and activities

I feel closest to my partner when they:

Engage in deep conversations with me

Remember the things I like and get them without me asking

Allow me to express my feelings

Support me in times of need

Stroke my hair and give me gentle back massages

When I first start to like someone, I let them know by:

Surprising them with small tokens of my appreciation

Flirting, making eye contact and being tactile

Offering to do things that will make their life easier

Asking to hang out with them as much as possible

Sending cute messages & speaking to them often

I love it when my partner puts their arm around me in public:

Describes me very well

Describes me moderately well

Does not describe me

You’ve had a bad day. What will make you feel better?

Select your ideal date:

Ordering in and binge watching a series/ movie

Coffee & a long walk

Getting dressed up & going to a fancy restaurant

Live event (i.e., comedy show/ concert)

Cocktail making class

I tend to hold onto things people have said to me, even years later:

Describes me very well

Describes me moderately well

Does not describe me

I feel the most disconnect with my partner when they:

Actions speak louder than words:

True

False

In relationships I require a lot of reassurance:

Describes me very well

Describes me moderately well

Does not describe me

I can be guilty of buying people's affection:

Describes me very well

Describes me moderately well

Does not describe me

I expect other's to make themselves available for me:

Describes me very well

Describes me moderately well

Does not describe me

When dating, I often confuse sex with intimacy:

Describes me very well

Describes me moderately well

Does not describe me

I prioritise the needs of others over my own:

Describes me very well

Describes me moderately well

Does not describe me

I've previously been accused of being needy:

True

False

I have to be intimate with my partner at least twice a week, or I don’t feel close to them:

Describes me very well

Describes me moderately well

Does not describe me

You received a promotion at work, how do you want your partner to react?

Praise me and tell me they’re proud of me

Surprise me with dinner reservations

Give me a congratulatory card & flowers

Book a last-minute weekend getaway

Give me a meaningful embrace

I’m most sensitive to:

You’ve had a disagreement with your partner. How do you make amends?

Write them a heartfelt letter

Initiate make-up sex

Have their favourite meal waiting for them when they get home

Apologise for your part and tell them you love them

A sentence that means a lot to me:

“This one’s on me”

"I love you"

“I’m always here if you need me”

Biggest turn-off on a date:

Constantly checking their phone

Not offering to pay

Being too serious and not playful

Not asking me any questions about myself

If I haven’t seen my friend in a while, I:

Message them to tell them I miss them

Send them a copy of that new book they’ve been talking about

Ask them if they want to take a trip, just the two of us

I’d rather receive an inexpensive, thoughtful gift than an expensive, generic gift:

True

False

If my needs aren’t being met, it’s common for me to:

Love is:

Respect

Loyalty

Growth

Desire