Sexual Personality

Do you see sex as a way of getting to know your partner?

It is what sex is really all about for me

Not primarily but I can only have sex with someone I feel safe with

Not really as sex is a journey of personal discovery for me.

Do you close your eyes during sex?

No I like to see my partner and connect with them

Yes, I like to concentrate on the feelings

Yes sometimes, but being blindfold is a real turn-on for me

Do you get annoyed if there is an interruption in sex?

Yes as I want it to be our personal bubble

Yes especially if my partner interrupts the flow of my feelings

I don't mind as I like creative engaging sex

Do you like playing roles in sex?

Yes, as means of romantically connecting

No, it detracts from the intensity of feeling

Yes, as I love exploring the erotic energy of the imagination

Do you like to be served in receiving touch?

Yes, if it is part of our agreed foreplay

Yes, I love to be able to dive deeply into my pleasure

Yes, as part of a power game of service

Do you like sex with the lights off?

No as I like to see my partner

Yes as it helps me concentrate on what I'm feeling

I don't mind if it helps create sexual tension

What kind of anticipation in sex is important to you?

Looking forward to connecting

Looking forward to a journey into pleasure

Looking forward to the erotic tension in playing with power and imagination

What kind of connection is most powerful for you in sex?

Heart through eyes

Body through touch

Mind through words

When do you feel safest in sex?

In my lover's arms

With someone who can read me and is intuitive

With someone who can laugh and be playful

How do you most enjoy using your eyes in sex?

Making a deep connection with my partner

Feeling the energy in myself of my partner's gaze

Flirting and playing with the energy of sexual possibility

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