Friendship compatibility but not really: I just want to know what you think quiz

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Friendship Compatibility Insight

Discover your unique friendship compatibility with this engaging quiz! Dive deep into your thoughts and beliefs about relationships, emotional responses, and interpersonal dynamics.

Explore topics including:

Handling Past Offenses
Responding to Friends in Crisis
Expressing Emotions
Perspectives on First Impressions
Managing Negative Feelings

44 Questions11 MinutesCreated by ThinkingLeaf247

Your friend who is very dear to you talks to you about something that has been on their mind for a long time: they feel like the world isn't worth living in anymore. They don't feel understood by the people around them and they feel disconnected from the people in their life. This is the first time they've expressed these sentiments to you.how do you respond?

I would listen to them and not interrupt. If they want advice, they will ask for it, I choose to trust that they know what is best for them.

I would listen to them and not interrupt. I rarely know what to say in these scenarios. To be honest, it makes me really uncomfortable. I want to be here for them but it drains me. It is something that they'll eventually have to solve on their own. As a friend, I will do my best to accommodate but I can not give more than what I have.

I would listen to them and interject at times when I think it is important to. It is clear that they're ruminating on something that is unhealthy. As a friend, I don't want to see them hurting when I know that they are not in a state they have to be in.

I would listen to them and interject at times, they need to know that I'm listening and sympathizing with their situation. Right now, they need someone to agree with them and vent with them. This is healthy. Everyone feels like this sometimes, a good friend would shit talk the world or exes or parents or the school system w/ their friend.

Listen to their woes and let them know that this will all pass. I would recount experiences i've had in the past that I think align with how they're feeling now. If they see that I am okay despite having felt what they have felt, they would feel like they're not alone in this.

let them know first and foremost that they're loved, and that I'm thankful they've come to me with these issues. I would then listen to them and give them comfort. I would want to make them feel accepted and welcome.

i would tell them gently that everyone experiences the ups and downs of life. It is normal. We have to be tough and power through it. It's important to consider our feelings, but sometimes, dwelling in them is less than helpful. It is better to acknowledge them and entrench ourselves in the more tangible aspects of life. Like projects, hobbies, friends, or work.

I would listen to them but I really can't empathize at all. I understand that these feelings may be important to my friend but I think we feel what we allow ourselves to feel. I dislike allowing myself to dwell in feelings of pity and worthless nihilism, and hold my friends to a high standard as well. I may or may not tell this friend these things, depending on how I feel and who they are, but I'm certainly not impressed.

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Do you have a lot of things to talk about? (can check multiple answers)

my mind is always buzzing with ideas that I want to share with those important to me. I have so many things I think about that with the right connection, I would want to spend most of our time together talking about our perspectives.

my mind is always buzzing with ideas. I'm even interested in the perspectives and positions of those I don't know well. I can never run out of things to talk about because people are endlessly interesting.

My mind is always buzzing with ideas but I don't feel the need to share them with many others. They have to be people that I deem worthy.

i don't like to be talking all the time. I like to spend my time with friends quietly. I wouldn't mind just watching a movie together in silence.

Honestly? Most of the time? Time not spent sharing ideas is so much more inferior than time spent sharing ideas. That isn't to say I can't enjoy some relaxing time together, but I want to get inside your head and I want you to be in mine!

my mind is always buzzing with ideas. but I don't particularly care what other people think. I just want to share what I think. Self expression is important to me.

I actually dislike it when people can't take a break. It's intellectually exhausting to be thinking about various situations all the time. I want to spend some healing time together instead. Not to say that I don't enjoy fun perspectives, but they occupy my mind long after the conversation is over, and that is not enjoyable at all.

It's fine once in a while. But know when to take a break. A soft touch, a good laugh together, that can be worth just as much!

How much do first impressions matter to you?

not much. I give people the chance to always change who they are in my mind in the current moment, at the present time, because I believe that people are dynamic.

not much, I dislike it when people judge me based on a first impression, so I won't do that to them either.

First impressions are unreliable. It's not fair to say that I know someone when we've barely interacted. So it's not important to me at all.

it's somewhat important. There are a lot that can be said about the way someone treats someone who they're unfamiliar with, regardless of their emotional state at the time. Perhaps over time they will change to feel differently about these situations but until then, what they show me is what I will take account for. Everyone is responsible for their every action.

regardless of what people choose to say or believe, empirical evidence shows that people stereotype and categorize a lot based on first impressions, and first impressions can affect the way we feel about someone for a long time. There is nothing wrong with that. so I think they are important to me, whether I realize it or not.

they are important. They tell me whether or not I want to continue to associate with someone. Regardless of the circumstances, there are actions that are inexcusable to me. if I have a bad first impression of someone, I am unlikely to ever seek them out purposely again. If the impression is particularly bad, I may actively avoid them.

Of course! Even if I have to say things that I disagree with, I would want to be someone who would leave a good impression. because I cannot stand being disliked.

Of course they are important! Even if I have to say things that I don't necessarily agree with, I think it's simply the polite thing to do.

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Do you make an effort then, to make a good first impression on purpose?

nah. I am who I am. I react to you the way that I react to you. Take it or leave it. If you don't like who I am, then we aren't meant to be. I don't like pretending to be someone I'm not.

of course my default state is to be someone likable, but within the realms of who I am. I would not purposely expose who I am in the presence of people that I do not know well, or trust.

of course my default state is to be someone likable, within the realms of who I am. because I'm not an asshole. I would even describe myself as polite. It's just basic manners. Being someone likable is just the product.

well... yes. Even if I have to betray a little bit of who I am, I want to be someone who is likable, I want to make sure people have a good impression of me. I never know who I am meeting, and the effect that they might have on my life. I also don't want other people to think poorly of me from the get-go.

of course! Even if I have to say things that I disagree with, I would want to be someone who would leave a good impression. It is the best course of action, as it can only benefit me.

What do you want your usual state of being to be?

Neutral

Positive

Negative

How do you express your feelings towards someone? (you can choose multiple answers)

I don't think it needs to be expressed specifically

I think it's important to show other people my appreciation/love/care for them.

I just tell them.

I show them my support by always being there for them, good or bad.

I make them little things/buy them little things, or do favours for them.

Little physical touches to show my comfort with them

Currently, what is your usual state of being?

Neutral

Positive

Negative

You are chatting to someone new and interesting, they ask if you are free anytime to spend some time together in the next week. You have seen each other a few times before and you're very excited to be making a new friend. unfortunately, the only time they're free is a time that you have already slotted away to do something with another friend. Quite frankly, you would rather spend time with this new person right now than your other friend. What do you do?

A commitment is a commitment, we're just going to have to wait for another time. My friend is important to me. I understand that meeting someone new is exciting but I won't disrespect my friend's time like this.

My friend's feelings are important, but it's really not that deep. I'm sure we can reschedule for another time if I just explain the situation to them, I'm sure they'd be happy to know that I'm meeting a new person too.

My friend's feelings are important. What they don't know can't hurt them. I'll make up an excuse for that particular day to reschedule with them to hang out with new friend.

I'll let the new person know I already have plans that day and ask my friend if they'd be okay with this new person joining us!

I'm sure my friend wouldn't mind this new person joining us, the more the merrier! I'll invite them to our gathering!

Maybe I can spend time with both of them that day, just at different time, cutting the meeting short for both cases. compromise?

Rate how accurately these statements describe you

	Not at all me	Mostly not me	A little not me	Neutral	Somewhat me	Mostly me	This is me
I'm always worrying about things
I prefer to spend my weekends with friends than alone
I prefer to feel in charge, and will put in effort to ensure it
I prefer to have a structured lifestyle as opposed to going with the flow
I'm often nervous when meeting new people
I trust others
I am so empathetic that I feel intimate oneness with others easily
I love myself
I become overwhelmed by the prospect of having many events jam-packed together
Life would be less bright if music suddenly got banned
I believe that people tend to have good intentions unless proven
I see wonder in the world easily and readily
I believe life is what you make of it
I rely on intuition heavily
I am someone who relies on logic more than emotions when making decisions
I am someone who relies on emotions more than logic when making decisions
I start losing interest in the conversation as soon as it becomes less tangible to me.
I'm often daydreaming about ideas that may or may not be realistic
Listening to mundane events in a close friend/family member's day makes me feel good
I am an optimistic person
I am a pessimistic person
I would describe myself as a realist

What is something you know about yourself that others (even those close to you) may not?

I emote more than I feel

I feel more than I emote

I am not as trusting as I say

I likely exaggerate events in my life more than what I think the average person does

Despite what I say and how I seem, I simply don't think about other people very much when I am not in direct contact with them

I don't want to answer

I don't know

I don't have such a trait

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A friend in your life is making decisions that you don't agree with. In fact, you have reason to believe that the decisions they are making are hurting them. What do you do? (you may choose more than one option or add your own option)

i confront my friend, honestly and frankly, though not without tenderness. I care about them. if I see them heading towards a trajectory that would ultimately hurt them, I would of course want them to avoid that. It also gives them an opportunity to justify their actions to me.

Of course I would confront them. I think as a friend, I would feel betrayed or at least disappointed if my friends don't stop me from doing something that they think are harmful to me.

i would not confront them explicitly, but I would prompt/hint that I do not agree with what they're doing/what they're doing is not a good course of action. I don't want my friend to become defensive in response, and I think it is better if they come up with the solution themselves.

i would not confront them. I choose to believe in my friends. They know what they want best. I only want what they want for themselves.

i would not confront them. There is no point talking to someone about something when they haven't realized that point themselves yet. If they ask me for my opinions, that is a different matter. I don't want to interject where my opinions are not wanted or sought after.

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Which of the following best fits your approach to love in relation to yourself and others. If they are all bs to you, feel free to add your own answer. (you can check multiple answers)

i love my friends and/or family more than I love myself. I have so much overwhelming love for them, more than I feel like I can ever have for myself. This love means an incredible amount to me. I can say that I am willing to give my life and more for them.

i love my friends and/or my family. I also love myself. I cannot really determine which love is greater in magnitude, perhaps because the importance of which I place on these loves differ depending on the circumstances. During my neutral state, I cannot discern a significant difference in magnitude.

i love myself more than I love my friends and/or family. if I cannot love myself first and foremost, it must be difficult for my friends and/or family to love me as well. I have to show myself that I am worth loving first and foremost, in order to step out and shine in the world.

i place more importance on the love I have for my friends and/or family than the love I have for myself. I have so much overwhelming love for them, more than I feel like I can ever have for myself. This love means an incredible amount to me. I can say that I am willing to give my life and more for them.

i place more importance on the love I have for myself than the love I have for my friends and/or family. if I cannot love myself first and foremost, it must be difficult for my friends and/or family to love me as well. I have to show myself that I am worth loving first and foremost, in order to step out and shine in the world.

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Did you enjoy this quiz? (you may choose more than one answer and add your own)

yes. I like to reflect on myself and these questions prompted me to think/reaffirm my previous notions on various aspects of myself.

yes. But these questions could have been done better. I didn't find them very introspective/i have thought about them too much already.

it was alright. I did it because I really like you <3 <3 but I wouldn't do it for no reason.

It was okay!

No. Give me back my time.

no. Some of these questions were badly worded. I am also annoyed at the lack of choices in the answers.

no. But that's because I generally do not enjoy these.

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