Catching Kismet Forever Love Alignment Assessment

First Name:

Last Name:

Email:

Phone Number:

Relationship Status:

Please answer the following questions:

I believe that I have limiting beliefs about love, dating, relationships, or myself that are keeping me from attracting my soulmate.

I have taken time to define the qualities I am looking for in a mate.

I use my thoughts and feelings to attract my life partner.

I have a strong network of close friends who love and support me unconditionally.

I have close friends who tell me the truth instead of just telling me what I want to hear.

My friends give me advice about the men that I date.

When I am having a difficult time, I have people I can turn to.

Dating is full of more disappointment than enjoyment.

I can find something positive in just about every first date I have.

I embrace dating as an opportunity to meet new people, and make new friends.

I feel crushed when a guy doesn’t contact me again after a first date I thought went well.

I feel very anxious about the process of meeting new men to date.

I feel very anxious when I am dating someone before we are in a committed relationship.

I feel very anxious when waiting for a guy I’m interested in to call or text me.

I feel very disappointed after a first date with a guy who is not someone I could see myself actually dating.

I feel very disappointed when a man whose profile I really like does not write back to me online.

I feel very disappointed when not enough men contact me online.

I feel very frustrated that few men that I meet or go on first dates with are men I could ever see myself dating long-term.

I get excited before all first dates because my date could be THE ONE.

If I meet a great guy but there is no chemistry, I typically wouldn't go out with him again.

It really depresses me that I only seem to attract men who are not right for me.

Most men don’t meet my standards, so I don’t give them a chance.

I am able to say “no” to people without guilt, even those with whom I am close.

I am compassionate towards myself.

I feel comfortable ending a relationship if I see red flags.

I feel completely lovable just as I am.

I have a strong network of close friends who love and support me unconditionally.

I have trouble being my authentic self with men.

I love myself.

I prioritize my own needs.

I prioritize my own self-care.

I recognize when I am not being treated with dignity and respect.

If someone does not treat me with dignity and respect, I have no problem communicating how I feel to that person or ending a relationship, if necessary.

Every week, I engage in activities that bring me joy and make me feel alive.

I can quickly name 5 activities that bring me joy and make me feel energized and happy to be alive.

I am still crazy about my ex, and it keeps me from moving forward with other relationships.

Each day I devote time to fulfilling my life’s purpose.

I know what my life’s purpose is.

I believe in being proactive about looking for love.

I can recognize red flags.

I feel comfortable ending a relationship if I see red flags.

I have 4 or more dates a month.

I know how to balance my drive for career success at work with femininity when I am with my man.

I know the characteristics of my perfect guy, and I won’t settle for anything less.

I listen to what a man says, but I only make decisions based upon what he does.

The number one need a man wants fulfilled in a relationship is:

It has been at least 6 months since I went out on a date.

On dates, I often find myself thinking about what is happening instead of being fully present with my date.

As I look back, I find that I typically ignore my friends’ advice about the men that I date, and go with my feelings instead.

I turn to family and/or friends during challenging times in my life.

I have good examples of people close to me who are in successful, happy marriages.

My parents are happily married.

I believe in dating multiple men casually until I find someone to get serious with.

I have given myself enough time to heal since my last relationship.

I have had a hard time finding someone who has all the qualities I'm looking for, and there is no way I would settle for anything less.

I know how to flirt and give a man signals to let him know I’m interested.

I don't date because it is hard for me to make time.

With the right person, I don’t mind jumping into a relationship quickly

If I feel chemistry with a man, I don’t mind having sex very early in our relationship.

Please answer the following questions with a rating from 0 to 10.

How dedicated have you been over the course of your life to activities that will help you to understand yourself better and heal. (e.g. psychotherapy, hypnosis, EFT, etc.) 0 - Not dedicated, 10 - devote time each day.

How much of a connection have you been able to see between events that happened in your childhood, and events that happened/happen in your life as an adult? 0 - See no connections, 10 - Frequenly see connections.

How much do you believe that you are still impacted in your life today by the events that occurred in your childhood? 0 - Not impacted, 10 - Very impacted.

We typically have painful repeating patterns of events or situations that commonly occur in our lives - to what degree have you learned the lessons from those patterns and eliminated them from your life. 0-Eliminated NO Painful patterns 10-Eliminated ALL

How much have you completely forgiven everyone who has hurt you in any way in your life? 0-Forgiven no one 10-Forgiven everyone

How painful are the patterns you experience in your life? 0-Not painful at all 10-Extremely painful

How would you rate the success of your last significant relationship in terms of the ability to communicate and resolve conflict effectively.

How would you rate your last significant relationship in terms of harmony/agreement on important issues such as spiritual beliefs, sex, habits, family, and finances.