Are You an Enabler?

Do you protect your loved one by lying about their substance abuse?

Do you give them money on a regular basis?

Do you let them borrow your car?

Do you blame others for the dependent persons' poor decisions?

Do you have a hard time expressing your feelings about their addiction?

Do you treat him/her like a child? Do you do their laundry, cook them dinner, etc.?

Do you continue to give them chances, even if you have tried to put your foot down in the past?

Are you in denial that they are dependent on drugs and/or alcohol?

Have you ever bailed your loved one out of jail or financial troubles?