finally you are The decompresser For you, sex is all about stress relief. Sex is a way you blow off steam and unwind. You may seek out sex because you're feeling tense, or you may simply enjoy spending time basking in the afterglow when sex is over. Maybe you like how sex puts you right into a deep sleep afterward! You may masturbate for the same reasons too. Orgasms are important to you because they bring about that feeling of relief or release. Sex just doesn't feel complete without that.