Unhappy In Your relationship? How ready are you to move forward?

You are:

Married

In a Long Term Relationship (LTR)

How long have you been together?

Less than 2 years

More than 2, less than 5 years

More than 5, less than 10 years

More than 10 years

What would you say your biggest challenge is in your relationship?

Typical disagreements common in any relationship

We do not communicate, we avoid one another

It is a one way street. I am the only one trying

He/she is immature and stubborn

What is your biggest fear if you leave?

The feeling of failure I have to deal with

Hurting my children

Being judged by others

I will be lonely for the rest of my life

What is your biggest fear if you stay?

This will be my life

Bad example for the kids

What if he/she decides to leave me

What if he/she never changes

What are your feelings towards him/her?

I still love him/her

I do not love him/her, but I can tolerate for the time being

I feel so much anger and resentment towards him/her

I feel sorry for him

How is your relationship effecting your phyche?

I am tired, exhausted and depressed

I am frustrated and stressed out

I am hopeful, I know we can work it out somehow

It doesn't effect me, I've given up long ago

It is five years from today, what is your vision for your relationship?

He/She is not in that picture

Same. Not much changed

We are together, things are a lot better

It ended because he/she refused to change

What has been stopping you from leaving him/her?

I still love him

I can't afford it

I have been preparing for my departure

I was hoping he will change eventually

If I leave...

He/she will pay for it. I will not make it easy on him/her

He/she will be devastated

I will do it amicably. I don't want to create drama

I will feel quilty

I believe...

Separation is the best option

We can work it out

Things would have been better, if he/she was more mature

Things would have been better, if he/she was more committed

If I describe my marriage / relationship, I would say...

Not ideal and we are both better off separated

We are together because I tolerate him/her

I am getting impatient. He/she better changes soon.

It is not perfect, but no marriage really is.

How long have you been unhappy?

Since we had kids

It has always been on and off

What do you think is to blame for your unhappiness?

It is all his/her fault

It is partially my fault. I could have done more

Nobody, we just grow out off one another

Conditions were not ideal for us to create happiness

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