Conflict Resolution Survey

I ask for help in resolving the conflict from someone outside our relationship

I try to stress those things on which we both agree rather than focus on our disagreement.

I attempt to bring out all the concerns of the other person.

I am firm in pursuing my goals.

I strive to preserve our relationship.

I seek to split the difference in our positions where possible

I work toward a solution that meets BOTH our needs

I avoid the discussion of emotionally charged issues.

I try to impose my solution onto other people.

I suggest we search for a compromise solution that is acceptable for the both of us.