I am over all of my exes, and I have given myself time to heal since my last relationship.

I had some challenging or painful experiences before the age of 18, and I now understand the connection between the events that happened in my childhood and what later happened in my adult life.

I have devoted time and effort to healing any painful events from my past to the point where they no longer have a significant impact on me.

I can quickly name 5 activities that bring me joy and make me feel energized and happy to be alive, and I regularly make time in my schedule every week to engage in one or more of those activities.

I have or have had in the past good examples of people close to me who are in successful, happy marriages.

I have a clear understanding of all the skills it takes to make a marriage work long term.

I know what my life's purpose is, and I devote time every day to fulfilling it.

I have a strong network of close friends who love and support me unconditionally, and are really there for me when I am having a difficult time. I make time to connect with my circle every week.