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Signs Your Girlfriend Is Losing Interest: Take the Quiz

Quick, free girlfriend losing interest quiz. Instant results.

Editorial: Review CompletedCreated By: Jen FailingerUpdated Aug 28, 2025
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This quiz helps you spot signs your girlfriend is losing interest, from slow replies to canceled plans, and choose a calm next step. For perspective, try the is he losing interest quiz or check feelings with does my girlfriend love me. Results are instant, so you can reflect and decide what matters most.

When you text her something everyday-casual, how does she usually respond?
Replies within a reasonable time with warmth or curiosity
Replies later than she used to, tone is fine but briefer
Sometimes super engaged, other times radio silent
Rarely replies or keeps it strictly functional
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Who tends to initiate hangouts lately?
Both of you initiate naturally
You initiate a bit more than before
Initiation swings wildly between you two
You do nearly all the initiating now
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How easy is it to lock plans once you both say you want to meet?
Easy and smooth; details fall into place
Takes extra nudges or rescheduling
Some weeks it is smooth, other weeks chaotic
Plans often stall, cancel, or never finalize
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The tone of her affectionate messages lately feels
Warm and consistent
Softer or less frequent than before
Hot one day, cool the next
Sparse or perfunctory
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When you share good news, her reaction is
Genuinely excited and engaged
Positive but brief, then she drifts off
Sometimes thrilled, sometimes oddly distant
Minimal acknowledgment or quick topic change
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Across the past month, the overall pattern of her attention has been
Dependable and steady
Gradually tapering
Up and down without a clear reason
Noticeably diminished
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During disagreements, how does she engage with repair?
Collaborative and caring; seeks solutions
Less available for repair than before
Sometimes leans in, other times withdraws
Avoids, minimizes, or shuts it down
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How does she respond to talking about future plans together?
Open, curious, and willing to plan
Cautious and slower to engage than before
Varies between enthusiasm and hesitation
Deflects or avoids future talk entirely
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How often do plans get canceled by her?
Rarely, and with clear reasons when it happens
A bit more than before, but still occasional
Some weeks none, other weeks multiple
Frequently, sometimes last minute
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When you are swamped, does she check in on you?
Yes, naturally and thoughtfully
Less than she used to
Some weeks yes, other weeks not at all
Rarely or only if prompted
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Her public or social media engagement with you (likes, tags, comments) is
Consistent and warm
Quieter than before but not gone
Sometimes very visible, sometimes absent
Mostly absent now
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In person, physical affection from her is
Frequent and comfortable
A bit less frequent or more reserved
Some days very cuddly, other days distant
Minimal or feels obligatory
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Her follow-through on commitments to you tends to be
Reliable and consistent
Less reliable than it used to be
Strong some weeks, wobbly others
Often unreliable or forgotten
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On weekends, how prioritized do you feel by her?
Clearly prioritized with balanced independence
Less prioritized than a few months ago
It fluctuates without a clear reason
Rarely a priority unless you push
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The quality of your conversations feels
Engaged, curious, and emotionally present
More surface-level than it used to be
Deep some days, checked out other days
Brief and mostly logistical
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How does she treat your personal boundaries?
Respects them and checks in
Generally respectful but less attentive lately
Sometimes very respectful, other times dismissive
Often dismissive or inattentive
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Does she proactively share about her day or inner world with you?
Yes, consistently and with interest in yours
Less than earlier in the relationship
Some days very open, other days closed off
Rarely shares beyond basics
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When schedules clash, her willingness to find a middle ground is
Collaborative and fair
There, but with more friction than before
Sometimes eager, sometimes uninterested
Low; often leaves it to you or lets plans die
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How often does she create small moments or gestures just for you?
Regularly and thoughtfully
Less often than before, but occasionally
Clusters of sweet gestures followed by dry spells
Rarely or not at all lately
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When you ask for clarity about how things are going, she
Engages honestly and appreciatively
Acknowledges but stays somewhat vague
Gives clear answers sometimes, dodges other times
Avoids the topic or shuts it down
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Her memory for important dates or commitments with you is
On point; she shows she cares
A bit spottier than it used to be
Sometimes excellent, sometimes forgetful
Frequently forgetful or overlooked
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If you do not text first for a bit, what tends to happen?
She checks in naturally before long
She takes longer than before to reach out
Sometimes she jumps in, sometimes nothing
She rarely reaches out at all
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In a tough week for you, her presence feels
Supportive and steady, even in small ways
Less available than she used to be
Present sometimes, absent other times
Largely unavailable or disengaged
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Her eye contact and body language with you lately reads
Open, warm, and relaxed
A bit distracted or distant compared to before
Sometimes very warm, sometimes closed off
Closed, rushed, or disengaged
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When you suggest something new to do together, she
Shows interest and offers ideas
Says maybe but rarely follows up
Some days excited, other days noncommittal
Often declines or avoids deciding
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She keeps you in the loop when her availability changes
True
False
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Canceling plans repeatedly always strengthens a relationship
True
False
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Her affection is steady across different contexts (text, calls, in person)
True
False
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Inconsistent affection is a textbook sign of a perfectly stable connection
True
False
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External stress can cause mixed signals without meaning the bond is gone
True
False
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Profiles

  1. The Silent Texter -

    If fast replies and emojis vanish overnight, you've encountered one of the most obvious signs your girlfriend is losing interest through text. Her messages become shorter, delayed or one-worded. Quick tip: Gently ask if everything's okay and share how you miss more meaningful chats.

  2. The Check-Out Chatters -

    Notice she seems physically present but mentally distant during conversations? This is a classic sign that your girlfriend is losing interest in day-to-day talks. She might glance at her phone or drift off in discussions. Action step: Plan a device-free date to reconnect and really listen.

  3. The Busy Bee -

    When "I'm busy" becomes a go-to response, you're facing one of the key signs your girlfriend is losing interest. Constant cancellations or vague excuses can signal waning investment. How to know if your girlfriend is losing interest? Track her willingness to prioritize you, then suggest setting a regular time just for the two of you.

  4. The Mixed-Message Maven -

    Hot one day and cold the next, she sends confusing signals that leave you guessing. This inconsistency is a telltale sign your girlfriend is losing interest, even if she shows occasional warmth. Tip: Address the ups and downs directly to seek clarity instead of staying stuck in uncertainty.

  5. The Still-Curious Partner -

    While you see a few sparks left - she initiates plans occasionally - her overall enthusiasm has dipped. Recognizing these subtle signs that your girlfriend is losing interest, you still have a chance to turn things around. Suggest a heartfelt conversation about both your needs to reignite the connection.

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