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Husband Takes Me for Granted? Take the Quiz

Quick, free quiz to spot signs you're unappreciated in marriage. Instant results.

Editorial: Review CompletedCreated By: Glenn FunkUpdated Aug 25, 2025
2-5mins
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This quiz helps you check if your husband takes you for granted and spot everyday signs of it. For more insight, see does my husband love me or explore husband still attracted to me. If you're thinking about next steps, the should we separate quiz can help you weigh options. Results are instant so you can start a calm, clear talk.

When your husband notices you seem off and asks how you are, what usually happens next?
We talk openly and he makes space for my feelings
He listens but sometimes drifts or changes the subject
I give a quick update and then handle it on my own anyway
He gets defensive or dismisses it as not a big deal
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Household responsibilities that no one sees (like tracking appointments or supplies) are handled how?
We clearly divide and own them, not just remind each other
We try, but some slip back to whoever notices first
I carry most of that mental list by default
He assumes I will manage it and resists making changes
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When you express a need for appreciation or help, the common response is:
Warm acknowledgment and a concrete follow-through
Verbal thanks now, action fades later
Agreement in words, then I still orchestrate the fix
Pushback, excuses, or topic changes
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Decision-making about money, schedules, or priorities looks like:
Shared planning with mutual input and respect
Mostly shared, though small things get assumed
I research and propose; he signs off
He decides or avoids; my input is sidelined
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During conversations, how present is he?
Attentive, eye contact, minimal distractions
Usually present, but the phone steals moments
He listens while I keep the thread and the to-do list
Often distracted or dismissive; I feel unimportant
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Follow-through on agreed changes or chores tends to be:
Reliable without nagging
Good for a while, then drifts
Dependent on my reminders and planning
Rare and often needs escalating asks
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How often do you hear specific appreciation for your efforts?
Regularly, with examples tied to actions
Sometimes, mostly around obvious moments
Only when I point it out or after big pushes
Hardly ever; it feels taken for granted
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If you take a step back from a routine task you usually handle, what happens?
He notices, checks in, and shares the load
He notices eventually and helps after a nudge
I still have to delegate details to get it done
It stays undone or I am blamed when it is missed
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Conflict repair after a disagreement usually looks like:
Mutual ownership, apology, and practical fixes
A cool-down and partial repair without clear change
I suggest steps and monitor follow-through
Minimizing, blaming, or avoiding the issue
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Your achievements or tough days are met with:
Active celebration or comfort tailored to me
Nice words but limited engagement
Support if I ask and outline what I need
Indifference or a quick pivot back to him
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We keep a shared system (calendar, list, app) and treat entries as owned responsibilities.
True
False
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Only grand gestures count as real appreciation.
True
False
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Undistracted listening helps people feel valued.
True
False
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Sharing chores makes a partner less independent.
True
False
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Regular check-ins can prevent small hurts from piling up.
True
False
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If he checks in about your feelings, it means he doubts you.
True
False
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Ownership beats reminders for balancing invisible tasks.
True
False
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Appreciation must be earned by doing more than your partner.
True
False
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Thank-yous often fade without intention and habits.
True
False
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Your needs should be silent to be respected.
True
False
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When you are overwhelmed, does he proactively step in without being asked?
Yes, he notices and lightens the load
Sometimes, after hints or visible strain
Only if I outline tasks and timelines
No, or he says I am overreacting
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How are interruptions handled when you speak?
He pauses, lets me finish, and responds thoughtfully
Occasional overlap, then he gives space
I often yield to keep peace and move on
He talks over me or shuts it down
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How do apologies tend to sound?
Clear ownership with a plan to do better
Sorry for the moment, then back to normal
Sorry, followed by me managing the fix
Non-apologies or blame-shifting
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How often do you feel safe to bring up a tough topic?
Consistently safe and heard
Usually safe, but I pick my timing carefully
I script it and minimize my needs to avoid backlash
Rarely safe; I expect dismissal or conflict
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Celebrating small wins or milestones together looks like:
Shared joy and intentional acknowledgement
A quick congrats and move on
I plan the celebration and logistics
It is ignored or minimized
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If plans change last minute, how does he handle the impact on you?
Checks how it affects me and adapts together
Acknowledges it but expects flexibility
I rearrange things to make it work
Acts like my time is less important
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Affection and kindness day-to-day are:
Frequent and matched with words and actions
Present but inconsistent
Given after I initiate or remind
Sparse or conditional
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When logistics pile up, who keeps the master plan?
We both do, with clear lanes
We try to share, but I still keep tabs
I do almost all of it behind the scenes
He expects me to handle it without input
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In stressful seasons, does he initiate check-ins about your capacity?
Yes, and we rebalance together
Sometimes, after I seem worn down
I ask for it and outline next steps
No, he assumes status quo
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Who typically initiates appreciation rituals (notes, thanks, check-ins)?
Both of us, fairly balanced
Mostly me lately, used to be more even
Almost always me, or it does not happen
Neither; appreciation is rare
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Profiles

  1. Blissfully Appreciated -

    You aced our does my husband take me for granted quiz, and it shows you feel genuinely cherished and respected in your relationship. Keep nurturing open dialogue and celebrating small moments to maintain this positive dynamic.

  2. On the Radar -

    Your results suggest your husband generally values you but occasional slip-ups leave you wondering, "Is my husband taking me for granted?" Set aside weekly check-ins to share appreciations and ensure you stay top of mind.

  3. At Risk of Overlook -

    Your score indicates moments when your needs get sidelined and you may feel underappreciated. Use our am i being taken for granted quiz insights to introduce gentle reminders about what matters most to you.

  4. Fading into the Background -

    Signs point to growing neglect - your husband takes you for granted more often than you'd like. Initiate honest conversations using "I" statements to reclaim mutual appreciation and reconnect.

  5. In the Shadows -

    Your outcome shows sustained feelings of invisibility and neglect. It's time to discuss boundaries and shared responsibilities or seek support from a counselor to restore balance and respect.

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