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Is My Marriage Over Quiz: Honest Relationship Check

Quick, free marriage in trouble quiz. Instant results.

Editorial: Review CompletedCreated By: Autumn SijUpdated Aug 25, 2025
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This quiz helps you spot signs your marriage is over and understand where your relationship stands today. If you want a broader check, try our marriage in trouble quiz, or explore whether your situation is fixable with is my marriage worth saving. You can also look at the bigger picture with the is the relationship over quiz. Your answers stay private, and results are instant.

After a tough conversation, what feels most true about your next step?
I want to try a new approach and see if it shifts our pattern.
I need time to weigh if staying or leaving makes more sense.
I feel like saying nothing and just carrying on separately.
I'm ready to disengage and plan my exit with care.
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When you imagine next month's routine together, what stands out?
Small changes could rebuild warmth-worth experimenting.
I want to test boundaries and see how I feel before deciding.
It looks functional but emotionally thin, like roommates.
I picture myself outside the relationship finding peace.
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Your body's reaction when your partner walks into the room lately is:
Alert but open; I'm curious if we can reconnect.
Mixed signals; sometimes soft, sometimes guarded.
Neutral or numb; I feel distant more than anything.
Calmly detached; I'm already emotionally done.
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A rare moment of shared humor happens. You think:
There's still a spark worth nurturing.
Does this outweigh the hard days? I'm not sure yet.
Odd blip; it doesn't change our drift.
Nice, but it doesn't alter my decision to leave.
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How do you approach apologies right now?
I own my part and try to repair with new behavior.
I apologize but also watch whether change sticks, then evaluate.
I keep it brief to avoid deeper talks that feel pointless.
I no longer feel moved to apologize beyond logistics.
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Thinking about counseling or tools (books, workshops) makes you feel:
Hopeful; the right tools could help us reconnect.
Curious; I'd try them while I assess fit and future.
Tired; effort seems heavier than the payoff.
Unnecessary; I've made peace with ending it.
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When setting boundaries lately, your mindset is:
Boundaries as a path to safer connection.
Boundaries as experiments to inform my decision.
Boundaries to conserve energy and avoid friction.
Boundaries to close the chapter respectfully.
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Your inner narrative about the future together sounds like:
What practical shifts could make this work?
I need more clarity before I commit to a path.
We'll coexist, but the closeness is gone.
I'm envisioning and preparing for life apart.
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On a surprisingly good day together, you tend to:
Build on it and propose small rituals to keep it going.
Note it as data, but wait to see if it lasts.
Enjoy it quietly without expecting more.
Appreciate the moment, but it doesn't change my course.
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Your reaction to your partner's sincere bid for affection is:
I lean in and try to meet it with warmth.
I accept, then watch how it feels over time.
I feel awkward and often let it pass.
I keep distance; affection no longer feels right here.
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When conflict starts, your default energy is:
Engage constructively and try a different tactic.
Track outcomes to see whether repairs actually stick.
Minimize and move on to conserve energy.
Detach; it doesn't feel worth engaging anymore.
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How do you talk about shared memories lately?
As reminders of what we could rebuild.
As evidence on both sides of the scale I'm weighing.
As distant snapshots without much feeling.
As part of closure, not a reason to continue.
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When you picture next holiday season, you see:
Us trying new traditions to rekindle closeness.
Two paths-together or apart-and I'm testing which fits.
Parallel plans under the same roof, emotionally separate.
Separate plans that feel relieving and aligned.
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Regarding affection and intimacy, you tend to:
Initiate gently and invite conversation about needs.
Check in with myself first; sometimes yes, sometimes no.
Avoid initiating; it feels burdensome or awkward.
Refrain; intimacy feels misaligned at this point.
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Your stance on shared goals (finances, parenting, moves) is:
Collaborate and reset agreements to rebuild trust.
Trial new agreements and see how they land over time.
Keep it transactional and minimal to get by.
Plan for separation logistics with care and clarity.
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When your partner succeeds at something meaningful, you feel:
Genuinely proud and use it as a moment to reconnect.
Conflicted; happy for them while unsure about us.
Detached; I notice it but feel little impulse to engage.
Glad for them, and it confirms we'll thrive apart.
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How do you interpret recurring arguments now?
Signals to adjust habits and communication patterns.
Data points to decide whether change is possible for us.
Background noise I try to avoid engaging in.
Proof that repairing this relationship is no longer my path.
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On a quiet evening, your preference is to:
Invite a small shared ritual (walk, tea, check-in).
Sit with my thoughts and see what I learn about staying/leaving.
Do my own thing; togetherness feels effortful.
Organize personal plans that don't include my partner.
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Your tolerance for uncertainty about the relationship is:
Manageable if we're actively trying new repairs.
Part of the process while I gather clarity.
Low; uncertainty leads me to withdraw quietly.
Minimal; I've resolved the uncertainty by deciding to end it.
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When your partner offers a thoughtful repair, you usually:
Engage and propose a follow-up to cement change.
Accept, then evaluate whether it sustains over time.
Acknowledge briefly and move on without depth.
Thank them, but it doesn't affect my decision.
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Your inner dialogue about blame and responsibility tends to be:
I'm willing to own my part and change patterns.
I'm mapping both our parts to inform a big decision.
I avoid the topic; it feels draining and unproductive.
I'm done bargaining with myself about our mismatch.
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How do you handle social plans as a couple right now?
Choose low-pressure activities that might rekindle ease.
Alternate together and solo plans while I gauge feelings.
Default to solo or parallel plans to avoid awkwardness.
Plan independently in anticipation of separating.
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Your view of shared humor lately is that it:
Can be a bridge back to closeness if we nurture it.
Shows potential, but I need more consistent change.
Feels rare and doesn't shift the overall distance.
Is pleasant nostalgia that won't alter my path.
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When you think about next year's big decisions (job, move), you:
Imagine coordinating choices to support rebuilding us.
Consider two versions of plans and compare how each feels.
Plan individually and keep joint input minimal.
Plan independently as part of preparing to separate.
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Your response to a small kindness from your partner is usually:
Reciprocate and name it to reinforce connection.
Appreciate it while noting whether the pattern repeats.
Say thanks and keep emotional distance.
Acknowledge it, but it doesn't shift my decision.
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How do mornings together typically feel now?
Like chances to reset and try gentle connection.
Variable; I use them to sense where I'm leaning.
Quiet and separate, focused on tasks over touch.
Another step toward organizing a separate life.
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When you envision a serious check-in talk, you feel:
Willing; it could move us toward repair.
Open; it might clarify which direction to take.
Reluctant; it seems unlikely to change much.
Resolved; the talk is about ending with care.
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Your sense of shared identity as a couple is:
Repairable with effort and new rituals.
Uncertain; I'm evaluating whether it fits my values now.
Thin; we function more than we connect.
Over; I'm forming a separate identity.
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How do you treat special dates (anniversaries, milestones) lately?
Create low-pressure moments to rekindle meaning.
Observe them while noticing how I actually feel.
Acknowledge perfunctorily or skip to avoid awkwardness.
Let them pass as I focus on closure and next steps.
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When disagreement ends, what lingers most?
A plan to try something different next time.
Questions about whether this is sustainable long-term.
Emotional emptiness and a desire to retreat.
Relief that I'm one step closer to ending it.
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Profiles

Discover what your quiz results reveal about your relationship status and learn actionable next steps.
  1. Growing Drift -

    You've noticed more silence than conversation and small irritations have become persistent. Our signs your marriage is over quiz highlights these early distance markers. Tip: Schedule a heart-to-heart and practice active listening to rebuild your connection.

  2. Fading Flame -

    Intimacy has dwindled and affection feels forced or routine. This outcome from our is my marriage over quiz suggests passion fatigue is taking hold. Tip: Plan a tech-free date night and explore shared activities to reignite closeness.

  3. Crossroads Alert -

    Communication breakdown, resentment, and avoidance are all present. Your results on how to know when your marriage is over quiz indicate multiple red flags. Tip: Seek couples therapy to address patterns before making any irreversible decisions.

  4. Resilient Rebuilders -

    You face challenges but still value each other's company and are willing to work through issues. The is your marriage over quiz shows hopeful signs of recovery. Tip: Commit to a weekly check-in ritual to celebrate progress and tackle concerns constructively.

  5. Final Curtain -

    Trust has eroded, and you feel emotionally checked out or ready to move on. This outcome echoes the results of a miserable husband syndrome test gone critical. Tip: Prioritize self-care, consult a legal advisor if needed, and consider individual counseling to plan your next chapter.

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