Am I Asexual?

When you see a person you think is "good-looking", how do you feel towards them?

I want to get to know them more to see if I will like their personality

I acknowledge that they are good-looking, but nothing more

I fantasize about them in a romantic/sexual way

I don't think anyone is "good-looking"

I am interested to know if they are a nice person, but I immediately move on

You are close friends with someone of a gender you can feel attraction towards, do you think of them in a romantic or sexual way?

No, they are my friend, not someone I am attracted to

I didn’t used to, but now that we are close friends I’m not so sure

Can you really be just friends with someone like that?

I do like them, but I only want to be their friend

Trick question; I don’t feel that way towards any genders

Someone confesses that they are attracted to you and asks you out on a date, how do you respond?

I immediately say no; I know I won’t be attracted to them

I find them attractive, but I say no because I don’t want a relationship

If they seem nice and are attractive, I say yes and see how it goes

I had never thought about them that way before, but now that I know they like me, I am interested

I had been attracted to them before, but now that I know they like me, I am not as interested

How do you feel towards pornography/erotica etc.?

I have never seen it nor been interested in seeing it

It intrigues me, but it makes me feel a bit uncomfortable

I enjoy it and become aroused by it because I find the people attractive

I enjoy watching it but the thought of me being involved repulses me

The thought of it repulses me

Are you more likely to feel attraction towards people you know or fictional characters/celebrities?

People I know; what’s the point if your feelings can’t be reciprocated?

It doesn’t matter to me; if they’re attractive, they’re attractive

Fictional characters/celebrities; it doesn’t matter if my feelings can’t be reciprocated

People I know, because I can form a close relationship with them

I don’t find either particularly attractive

What is your idea of a perfect intimate relationship between you and another person?

A close, platonic relationship

A romantic and sexual relationship

A romantic, but not sexual relationship

A sexual, but not romantic relationship

A romantic, physically intimate, but not sexual relationship

Do you ever have crushes?

Yes, but when they do happen, nothing ever comes of it

Only a handful of times and they weren’t sexual

Yes, and they often progress into relationships

No, never

Sometimes under the right circumstances, they are sometimes sexual sometimes not

How do you feel when the people around you are talking about sexual activity/attraction?

I don’t usually join in but I don’t mind it

It makes me feel very uncomfortable

I like talking with them about sexual activity and attraction

I pretend to be interested in it with them but I find it uninteresting

As long as they don’t involve me, I don’t mind it

Do you often fantasize about people in a romantic/sexual way?

Sometimes if I have a close relationship with the person

Yes, if I find someone attractive I will likely fantasize about them

I might if we don’t know each other personally and I find them attractive

No, I don’t think of people in a romantic/sexual way even if I am interested in them

I sometimes fantasize about romantic/sexual things, but not about any specific person

What meaning does sex have to you?

No meaning at all; it repulses me

It is a natural human instinct that can’t be eliminated whether we want to or not

It is a special intimate act between two people who love each other

It is an annoyance that I would rather not have to deal with, but I understand that it is different for others

It is an important part of my life and relationships that I enjoy

Am I Asexual?

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