How Healthy is the Relationship

Did B raped or forced sexual activities on A?

Is A accusing B of cheating when it's not true?

Does B understands that A have his/her own life?

Does A tries to control what B does or who B sees?

Does B makes A feel like no one else wants them?

Does A yell or humiliate B in front of others?

Does B ignores A's boundaries?

Does A only spends time with B? Is B the only one A socialized with?

Does B have feelings of being scared when A is around?

Does A turn to B for emotional support?

Does B respects A when they say "no" to something?

Does A implies that B is stupid or that they (A) is the smart one in the relationship?

Do A and B have a sense of relationship security?

Is A dismissive of B's emotions?

Does B seem interested when A experiences success?

Does A blame B for their life not being as satisfying as they like it to be?

Does B feel lonely when together with A?

Does A complains about B to their friends or family?

Does B implies that they only value A for one thing (sex, appearances, money, etc)?

Is A feeling worse about themselves as a person than when they started the relationship with B?

Does B mocks A, such as poking fun at A's voice or facial expressions in a mean way?

Does A feel like they're able to confide in B? If A were to reveal something that they're sensitive about, A is sure that B will react respectfully/helpfully?

When A and B disagree, does B insist that A do things their (B's) way or leave?

Is A dismissive of B's interests and projects?

Are there times when B avoid being with A because it's stressful for them to be with B?

When A and B argues, do they blame each other rather than each accepting some blame?

Is there an absence of affection in the relationship (rarely kiss, touch or smile at each other)?

Is A frequently comparing B unfavorable to other people (friends' partners, A's exes, etc)?

Are there violence involved in the relationship?

Is A manipulating B with their (B's) weakness, low self esteem, or loneliness?

Is B slowly changing A to become what B wants (appearance, behavior, personality, etc)?

Does A holds a grudge and can't let go of past hurt/anger?

Does B threatens A that they'll end the relationship or leave?

Does A feel pressure to quit activities that they usually/used to enjoy for B?

Does B need to ask permission to do something, go somewhere, or meet someone in order to avoid consequences (withdrawal of affection, silent treatment, sulking, verbal lashing)?