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Unhappy Marriage Quiz: Is Your Relationship Losing Its Spark?

Quick, free unhappy relationship quiz. Instant results and next steps.

Editorial: Review CompletedCreated By: Kamillah Jane SantillanUpdated Aug 25, 2025
2-5mins
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This unhappy marriage quiz helps you quickly gauge signs like distance, tension, and going numb, so you can see where your relationship stands now. After your result, explore the is my marriage over quiz, think through options with is my marriage worth saving, or check the positives in the happy in my marriage quiz.

When you have a free evening together, what most often happens?
We default to chores, screens, or separate tasks with minimal interaction
We start fine but end up in a blowup or tense silence
We keep plans practical-budgets, kids, errands-then call it a night
We propose something small but intentional, like a walk or board game
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Your inner monologue about the relationship lately sounds most like:
We function fine, but I feel emotionally alone beside them
We swing between closeness and conflict, and I'm exhausted
This is stable and expected; my needs can wait
Something's off, and I'm ready to try new approaches
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When affection comes up, which feels most true?
We rarely touch or flirt; it feels awkward to initiate
Affection appears after fights, then fades until the next flare-up
Affection has become optional; practicality takes priority
We're intentionally rebuilding warm moments in small ways
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Conflict tends to follow which pattern?
We avoid it; issues get buried under logistics and silence
It escalates fast; we apologize but repeat the cycle
We table it to keep the peace and carry on with duties
We slow down, name needs, and set agreements to test
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Thinking about intimacy and connection, your first impulse is:
I miss closeness but don't know how to bridge the gap
I crave closeness, then we clash, then I feel whiplash
It's not urgent; other responsibilities matter more
Let's schedule time, try new rituals, and review what works
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What keeps you in the relationship right now?
Habit and shared routines, even if it feels emotionally flat
The intense highs after conflict give me hope
Commitments-family, finances, promises-come first
A belief we can improve with consistent effort
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How do conversations usually start at the end of the day?
With schedules and to-do lists, then we trail off
With tension about a lingering issue
With updates about obligations and logistics only
With a check-in question and time to actually listen
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Your stance on getting outside help (books, therapy, workshops) is:
It feels unnecessary or awkward; we just coexist
We talk about it after bad fights but don't follow through
It might disrupt the stability we rely on
I'm open and ready to try structured support
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When planning the future, you two most often:
Stick to logistics like bills or calendars; feelings stay offstage
Envision big goals, then clash over details or effort
Keep plans modest and practical to avoid upheaval
Set small shared goals and checkpoints to adapt together
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How does apology and repair look after a misstep?
We skip the deeper talk and move on quietly
We say sorry, reconnect briefly, then repeat the issue later
We downplay it so life can keep running smoothly
We name what happened and agree on one small change
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Our home feels more like a project than a partnership
True
False
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Raising the same concern usually leads to a flare-up, not a fix
True
False
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More yelling always leads to healthier communication
True
False
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Stability is the main reason I stay, even if I feel unfulfilled
True
False
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Scheduling connection time ruins spontaneity and always backfires
True
False
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We rarely laugh together, even when nothing is wrong
True
False
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Taking breaks during conflict always makes problems worse
True
False
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I feel obligated to keep things steady more than I feel excited to connect
True
False
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We try small experiments (like check-ins or device-free dinners) to rebuild us
True
False
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Big romantic gestures are the only way reconnection works
True
False
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Which best describes your typical goodbye or goodnight?
A quick nod or routine phrase, little warmth
Sometimes sweet, sometimes tense, depends on the day
Efficient and polite, like clockwork
Intentional-hug, touch, or words that land
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When you imagine asking for what you want emotionally, you:
Worry it will feel needy or be dismissed
Fear it will trigger defensiveness or a fight
Decide it can wait until life is less demanding
Plan a calm moment and a clear, specific request
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How do you treat shared routines like meals or bedtime?
Parallel habits; we're together but not connecting
They start fine, then tension creeps in
We prioritize efficiency over togetherness
We add a tiny ritual-gratitude, check-in, or touch
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When life stress spikes, your pattern as a couple is:
Shut down connection to keep the machine running
Argue more, then crash into brief reconnection
Double down on duties, postpone feelings indefinitely
Name the stress and agree on small supports
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Your view on sex and physical intimacy right now is:
It feels distant or mechanical; hard to initiate
It spikes after conflict and dips during tension
It's not a priority compared to responsibilities
We're experimenting gently and communicating needs
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How do you respond to recurring disagreements about fairness or roles?
We keep it surface-level and move on
We rehash loudly, cool off, then repeat later
We accept the status quo to avoid disruption
We define tasks, timelines, and accountability together
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What do you do when you notice growing distance?
Say nothing; hope it passes
Push for a talk that often turns heated
Distract with work, kids, or errands
Name it kindly and suggest one concrete step
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Picture a perfect weekend day together. What makes it feel good?
Simple side-by-side tasks without pressure to emote
A meaningful talk where we don't end up fighting
Getting everything done smoothly with no surprises
Shared play, presence, and one new small ritual
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When your partner is upset, your go-to reaction is:
Fix the practical thing and skip the feelings
Defend myself, then regret it later
Suggest we table it since life is busy
Listen first, reflect back, then collaborate on next steps
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If you each had 15 minutes daily for the relationship, you would:
Use it to plan chores or tomorrow's schedule
Start a tender talk that might spiral
Skip it; there's too much else to handle
Do a check-in with one question and one appreciation
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Profiles

  1. Spark Keeper -

    Your relationship still has moments of joy and deeper connection. According to our unhappy marriage quiz, you're navigating typical ups and downs rather than a loveless marriage. Tip: Keep prioritizing quality time and honest communication to maintain the spark.

  2. Ebbing Connection -

    You're feeling more like roommates than partners, and the loveless marriage quiz flags early warning signs of drift. Small changes - like setting aside 15 minutes nightly for check-ins - can rekindle emotional closeness.

  3. Lonely Spouse -

    Emotional distance is growing, and the unhappy in marriage quiz shows you're slipping toward isolation. Action step: Schedule a heartfelt conversation or try a joint activity to rebuild trust and warmth.

  4. Miserable Husband Syndrome -

    Your partner seems disengaged or resentful, matching patterns on our miserable husband syndrome test. Encourage open dialogue, suggest joint counseling, and explore self-care routines for both of you.

  5. Broken Bonds -

    You're facing a truly loveless marriage, as confirmed by our unhappy marriage quiz results. It's time for professional support - consider couples therapy or a marriage coach to guide you toward healing or a healthy separation.

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