QUIZ: What archeTYPE is your relationship?
First question, how would you encompass the identity of your entire relationship in ONE word? Choose from the list below, the word that BEST describes your relationship NOW.
Free-Spirited
Impulsive
Persistent
Possessive
Chatty
Reasonable
Compassionate
Moody
Let's talk stuff. How much do the two of you care about having nice things?
We like things that reflect our unique tastes
We just buy what we like when we see it
We ONLY buy the best, highest quality
We take a long time to decide what to buy, we are VERY picky
We love IKEA, functionality is beauty
We buy whatever our friends seem to like
Most of our stuff has sentimental value
We prefer comfort over everything else
Experts say communication is key to human connection. Which choice best describes the way you talk, understand and listen to each other MOST of the time?
We speak and listen freely to eachother, straight from the heart!
Well one of us has to 'win' every conversation, second place is last place!
We approach communication as a sensible way to solve problems!
We are really good at communicating criticisms of each other!
Debating is one of our favourite pass-times!
As long as neither one of us gets too emotional, we communicate perfectly!
We notice and validate eachother's non-verbal communications really well!
Pretty much every conversation leads to a melt down!
Home is where the heart is! What's it like living under the same roof? If you don't live together, what is it like spending time together at home?
We both putter and do our own thing around the house
Home seems to be the place we go to argue
We are really grateful to live in such a beautiful home together
As long as the house is clean and tidy, we like being home
Spending quality time together in a shared space is a dream come true
Living together is just what couples are expected to do
We'd rather be home together than ANYWHERE else
Home is the place we use to escape
We all have inner children who refuse to grow up. How do your inner-children interact within your relationship? Choose the option that MOST accurately describes the two of you, NOW.
Our inner children are enthusiastic about life! We love to have fun!
Our inner children seem mostly angry at each other
Our inner children love helping and serving, we get joy from helping out in the community
Our inner children are terrified that we aren't measuring up or good enough
Our inner children are curious and thirsty to learn
Our inner children get in "tit for tat" fights quite often
Our inner children trust in positive outcomes
Our inner children have addictive tendencies (video games, working, shopping, drugs, alcohol, etc)
Every couple belongs to a family and community. We all need to feel like we are contributing to both in order to feel like we have purpose and meaning. How does your partnership serve your community? More specifically, how do you get the work done together? If you had to plan a family/community event together, how would/does it go?
We have excellent willpower to get any job done we set our minds to
What community?
We are very good at noticing and handling all the small details
Regardless of the situation, we will take charge of it!
We bring really good ideas to the table for planning and contributing to events
There is no way we could make even one decision together
We would gather the troops and delegate!
We already resent being asked to even think about this
Partnership can be a loaded word. Things don't always seem to be equal. How do you deal with conflicts within your partnership?
We both have the self-awareness to express ourselves without censorship
We practically never let go of our own positions to see the other's
Even if we argue, honouring each other's needs is top priority
We don't fight that often because we don't really share our feelings
We both want to objectively see each other's subjective point of view
We avoid conflict like it's the plague
We notice and validate each other's feelings, even if we disagree
We both end up over-reacting and saying things we don't mean
Describe your sex-life in ONE word!
Adventurous
Non-existant
Sensual
Tense
Reciprocal
Detached
Connected
Rushed
An effective relationship, like an effective business, needs a quality vision and mission statement. Choose the vision/ mission statement you like the best for your relationship.
We use courage to take action!
Each man/ woman for themselves!
Hard work gets the reward!
Never give up!
There are two sides to every story!
May the smartest man/woman prevail!
Be kind, be humble, be love!
Ride or die!
If you were to overhear a close friend speaking about your reputation as a couple, what would your overly honest buddy disclose?
They are such different people but they seem to balance each other out
They bicker constantly, it gets awkward being around them
They work well together, they seem super committed to each other anyway
They seem to care what people think about them quite a bit
They are always up for an interesting discussion, they are easy to talk to
They seem detached and disconnected from each other lately
They just love love, it's gross
They always seem to have bad things happening to them
The basis of any solid relationship is friendship. How would you describe your friendship, within your romantic relationship?
We enjoy adventure and freedom together
We are so different, it's hard to find common points
We are so good at making and smashing goals together
We get lost in the day to day and forget to make time for each other
We are constantly learning new things about each other
We mainly just gossip about other people when we talk
We are doing our inner healing and work so that we can have the best relationship possible
We would be better friends if one of us would change. A lot.
You can be an atheist and still acknowledge that nature governs things outside the control of humans. How does faith/spirituality influence your relationship? (in self, nature, universe, higher power, earth fairy, etc)
We believe that trusting ourselves and eachother champions success and happiness
We are too worried about paying the bills and surviving to think about anything else
We have a lot of gratitude for all the abundance we enjoy together
We just do what is socially acceptable and try not to embarrass ourselves too much
We believe in humanity and recognize how special our time here is
We don't think or talk about spiritual beliefs
We acknowledge a deep interconnectedness in the universe
We are just trying to get through the pain of the day so we can watch Netflix
Every relationship reaches a crisis point at some point in the road. What has been the biggest obstacle you've overcome/ have yet to overcome together? Name the obstacle that is occurring CLOSEST to present day and/or the one that is still affecting you NOW.
Freedom of self within the relationship
Infidelity
Keeping commitments and promises
Physical/ mental illness (including addiction)
Unwillingness to change
Inequality in roles
Controlling/ manipulative behaviour
Low self worth
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